I am horrible at keeping secrets, I don’t/can’t lie, everyone will tell you I stink at it… because of this, planning a wedding is HARD!!!
All my key players, my mom, my soon to be mother in law and my bridesmaids know pretty much everything and they should know... I need their opinions and help making decisions (they also help keep me grounded and help me not to stress too much!). But I want our guests to be surprised and in awe of what we’ve worked hard to create. This is where my trouble begins. I want to post pictures on FB of the dresses, reception decorations and place settings, I want to share our findings with friends and family that are not it the wedding. Every day I have to say, ‘Don’t do it, Danielle. It will be worth the wait… they will see it all on July 14th.’
But this trouble is nothing compared to the need to show Ryan my wedding dress. I’ve even caught myself trying to find little ways of explaining the dress to him… I want him to see it soo bad that it makes me do the antsy dance just thinking of it. Ryan has been great; he hasn’t even asked what it looks like. All he wanted to know if I loved it!
I can’t wait until the time comes that we get to share our special day with all the most important people in our lives and when that day comes I will smile because I know that there are no more secrets.
